Teen Sex & Marriage

Posted by Kadek Dwika Yundarani on 11:47 PM in

Quote dari sebuah acara TV hari ini, saat para anak SMA di Jakarta diwawancarai tentang teen sex, jawaban mereka adalah “Ya ga apa, toh itu dilakukan sama pacarnya. Kalau hamil ya tinggal nikah.”

Hhhmmmm, quite interesting answer. Let’s discuss this. I’m not going to see this from religion point of view, just mine. Saat ini cukup banyak terjadi pernikahan usia remaja karena hamil duluan, yak arena jawaban diatas tadi. Buruk? Yes of course! Why? Now this is the reason why.

1.       Marriage is not about sex! Marriage is about you and your partner. Their past, present, and future. About the breath you take, about the foot step you’ll print, about the minutes you’ll waste, the touch you’ll share and a lot. If it is only about sex you don’t have to get married. Kalau alasannya biar halal, meaning that in your super stupid brain you just would like to see your partner naked and fucking him/her and that’s it. Then what’s the different between you and animals?

2.       Marriage is not like you taking a bus to somewhere you don’t know. You go into the bus, observe a lil while, and when you feel lost you just need to jump out in the next bus stop to find another one. Marriage is marriage, not a bus, a train, jet or anything you could imagine. Marriage is you jump into the same bus together, observe, and when you feel lost, you’ll find a way to get home together. Because, since you committed yourself into a marriage life, you decide to take half of their life with you. You are not even the GOD, but they give it to you, so don’t even think you could just throw it away.

3.       Your cute lil baby is not immortal. They will not keep cute, funny and chubby. They will grow up, just like you did. Don’t you remember how crap you are. How you screw your parent’s life? That’s what they will do to you. So if you’re not ready yet, think more than just twice before you spread your sperm everywhere!

4.       Your kid is never asking to be born. You’re the one who sent them to this cruel world; you’re the one who did the sin. So they don’t deserve for unhappy life. They don’t deserve or young and stupid mom or a douchbag young dad. Make sure their life full of joy. Just like you, what did you feel when your mom and dad yelling each other and fighting. And what did you feel when they hug and loving each other.

5.       If you still cannot control you basic instinct of sex, make sure you (if you’re a boy) or your boyfriend is a superman, meaning he can control his own sperm. But since there’s only very limited super hero on this universe, you could just simply go to 24/7 convenience store around the world and buy a pack of condom! Although you are a girl you need to prepare. Nothing wrong to bring condom on your bag. Hey you’re the one who will get pregnant and feel the pain. 

So, have a safe sex if only you’re ready with the risk!

Remember, if you can’t afford condom means you can’t afford child!